You have to tell yourself every day that she does not love you. You have to tell yourself that you confessed your feelings for her, was everything that you could be for her, and she did not want you. She does not want you, and she will not ever want you as someone to love romantically.
That is less wishing it away and forcing yourself to recognize reality.
I've never been in love, but I can say that you are not stupid.
Emotions are emotions. They override good common sense. When someone gives you a sense of comfort, you want to pursue it regardless of the dangers. And I've always been an advocate of greed and the pursuit of happiness.
All we can do when we start to sink to them is remind ourselves of the reality of the situation. To stop ourselves from hurting ourselves and those around us.
Here I was feeling a little proud of what you two were doing, and now I had to intervene a little to ensure that it wouldn't deteriorate into something unpleasant.
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
no subject
[1/4]
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
You have to tell yourself every day that she does not love you. You have to tell yourself that you confessed your feelings for her, was everything that you could be for her, and she did not want you. She does not want you, and she will not ever want you as someone to love romantically.
That is less wishing it away and forcing yourself to recognize reality.
no subject
great. a daily affirmation.
fun.
no subject
It's a painful thing to have to do, but if you do not wake yourself from your dream, you won't ever be able to make Sakura happy even as a friend.
no subject
i just wish i wasnt such a peabrain that i had to sit in front of a mirror and remind myself of the obvious
no subject
Emotions are emotions. They override good common sense. When someone gives you a sense of comfort, you want to pursue it regardless of the dangers. And I've always been an advocate of greed and the pursuit of happiness.
All we can do when we start to sink to them is remind ourselves of the reality of the situation. To stop ourselves from hurting ourselves and those around us.
no subject
ill give it a try if nothin else
no subject
Here I was feeling a little proud of what you two were doing, and now I had to intervene a little to ensure that it wouldn't deteriorate into something unpleasant.
no subject
even if we dumb kids.
sorry for e-yellin at u
no subject
Don't worry yourself about it.
no subject
have u talked to her at all lately?
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
no subject
She's going to need some time to heal. Still, I believe it is best to do what you think is best for her.
no subject
no subject
Does she?
no subject
no subject
I merely mean "does she?" Do you really think she does?
(no subject)
(no subject)
(no subject)
(no subject)
(no subject)
(no subject)
(no subject)
(no subject)