I've never been in love, but I can say that you are not stupid.
Emotions are emotions. They override good common sense. When someone gives you a sense of comfort, you want to pursue it regardless of the dangers. And I've always been an advocate of greed and the pursuit of happiness.
All we can do when we start to sink to them is remind ourselves of the reality of the situation. To stop ourselves from hurting ourselves and those around us.
Here I was feeling a little proud of what you two were doing, and now I had to intervene a little to ensure that it wouldn't deteriorate into something unpleasant.
Because for someone who is running a marathon, it's good to ask a few questions now and again.
All the same, you shouldn't ask me what's going on with her if you're not willing to check on her yourself. I'm not some teenage gossip. If you're worried, then do something about it.
And if I said she was doing poorly, what would you do?
Really, May. Just ask her if you are curious. You two are living together. It is the height of foolishness to dance around her when you already have her in your living space.
You are getting no sympathy from me, May. But I am pleased to know you are reading.
You wanted to be able to keep living with her. Living with her does come with a few stipulations, like having to ask if she's okay if you feel like she's not.
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i just wish i wasnt such a peabrain that i had to sit in front of a mirror and remind myself of the obvious
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Emotions are emotions. They override good common sense. When someone gives you a sense of comfort, you want to pursue it regardless of the dangers. And I've always been an advocate of greed and the pursuit of happiness.
All we can do when we start to sink to them is remind ourselves of the reality of the situation. To stop ourselves from hurting ourselves and those around us.
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ill give it a try if nothin else
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Here I was feeling a little proud of what you two were doing, and now I had to intervene a little to ensure that it wouldn't deteriorate into something unpleasant.
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even if we dumb kids.
sorry for e-yellin at u
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Don't worry yourself about it.
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have u talked to her at all lately?
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She's going to need some time to heal. Still, I believe it is best to do what you think is best for her.
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Does she?
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I merely mean "does she?" Do you really think she does?
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im givn her space because if we spend as much time together as we used to itll just remind us of the truth between us
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All the same, you shouldn't ask me what's going on with her if you're not willing to check on her yourself. I'm not some teenage gossip. If you're worried, then do something about it.
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Really, May. Just ask her if you are curious. You two are living together. It is the height of foolishness to dance around her when you already have her in your living space.
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u aint gotta a botched love confession hangin round ur neck like some kinda albatross
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You wanted to be able to keep living with her. Living with her does come with a few stipulations, like having to ask if she's okay if you feel like she's not.
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but i get it
ill talk to her next time i see her
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Very good. I'm pleased that you will.